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Chapter 17 · Verse 22
🪈 Krishna speaks
Illustration for Chapter 17, Verse 22

अदेशकाले यद्दानमपात्रेभ्यश्च दीयते। असत्कृतमवज्ञातं तत्तामसमुदाहृतम्॥

adeśakāle yaddānamapātrebhyaśca dīyate | asatkṛtamavajñātaṁ tattāmasamudāhṛtam ||

Word by Word 11 words
अदेशकाले
a not diś place kāla time e locative, at

at the wrong place and the wrong time

यत्
yad which, that which

which, that which

दानम्
to give ana the act of

the gift, the act of giving

अपात्रेभ्यः
a not to protect, to be worthy tra worthy one bhyaḥ dative plural, to

to unworthy or undeserving persons

ca and

and

दीयते
to give yate passive, is given

is given

असत्कृतम्
a not sat good, proper kṛ to do, to treat ta past participle

given without respect, without proper courtesy

अवज्ञातम्
ava down, low jñā to know, to regard ta past participle

given with contempt, with scorn, looking down on the receiver

तत्
tad that

that

तामसम्
tamas darkness, dullness a made of, belonging to

tamasic, born of darkness and dullness

उदाहृतम्
ud up, forth ā towards hṛ to carry, to declare ta past participle

is called, is declared to be

says: "And then there is giving done at the wrong place or the wrong time, or handed to people it should not go to, or given rudely, without respect, even with a sneer, as if the giver looks down on the one who receives. That kind of giving is the lowest, clouded kind, because there is no warmth or care in it at all."

कथा

Two Gifts at the Gate

An original story

On the morning the rains finally came, two neighbours met at the gate of the little shelter where flood-stranded families had gathered. Both had come to give. But anyone watching would have seen two very different things.

The first was a wealthy man in fine clothes, with a servant carrying a great basket behind him. He arrived loudly, wanting to be seen. He did not look at the tired families. He did not ask what they needed. He simply tipped the basket over near the doorway, so the bundles tumbled into the mud, and some of the food rolled into a puddle. "There," he said, wrinkling his nose at the smell of the crowded shelter. "Take it. Be grateful." He spoke to the people as if they were stray dogs, never once meeting their eyes, and he turned and left before anyone could even answer. The food was real, but the way it was thrown down — carelessly, scornfully, into the dirt — made the families feel smaller, not safer.

The second was old Radha Bai, Meera's grandmother, who came a little later with far less. She carried only a cloth bundle of warm rotis she had cooked that dawn, and a small clay pot of dal. She had no servant and no crowd to watch her.

She did not toss the food down. She stepped inside, greeted an exhausted mother by joining her palms, and asked softly, "How many little ones do you have? Are they very hungry?" Then she sat on the floor among them — not above them — and served the rotis warm into each pair of hands, smiling at each child, making sure the smallest ones ate first.

Meera, who had come with her grandmother, looked from the muddy spilled basket to the warm rotis passing gently from hand to hand, and she understood something without anyone explaining it.

"Dadi," she whispered later, "he gave so much more food than you did."

"He gave more food," Dadi agreed quietly, "but he gave it at the wrong moment, in the wrong way, with no respect, flung into the mud as if the people did not matter. A gift thrown down with scorn leaves a person poorer in their heart. A small gift given with warmth and respect leaves them richer. It is not only what your hands give, Meera. It is what your heart gives along with it."

चिन्तनम्

Have you ever been handed something in a way that made you feel small instead of cared for? What is the difference between giving a thing and giving it with respect?