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Chapter 2 · Verse 38
🪈 Krishna speaks
Gond-style painting of colourful kites battling in the sky during Makar Sankranti, illustrating Krishna's teaching to treat pleasure and pain, victory and defeat, as equal.

सुखदुःखे समे कृत्वा लाभालाभौ जयाजयौ। ततो युद्धाय युज्यस्व नैवं पापमवाप्स्यसि॥

sukhaduḥkhe same kṛtvā lābhālābhau jayājayau | tato yuddhāya yujyasva naivaṁ pāpamavāpsyasi ||

Word by Word 12 words
सुखदुःखे
sukha pleasure, happiness duḥkha pain, suffering

pleasure and pain

समे
sama equal, even, balanced

equal, alike, the same

कृत्वा
kṛ to do, to make

having made, having treated as

लाभालाभौ
labh to obtain a not labh to obtain

gain and loss

जयाजयौ
ji to conquer, to win a not ji to conquer

victory and defeat

ततः
tatas then, therefore

then, therefore

युद्धाय
yudh to fight, to wage war

for battle, to fight

युज्यस्व
yuj to yoke, to unite, to engage

engage yourself! prepare for battle!

na not

not

एवम्
evam thus

thus, in this way

पापम्
pāpa sin, wrongdoing

sin

अवाप्स्यसि
ava down āp to obtain, to reach

you will incur, you will obtain

Treating alike pleasure and pain, gain and loss, victory and defeat — engage in battle. Thus you shall incur no sin.

कथा

The Kite That Did Not Care About Winning

An original story

The Makar Sankranti kite festival turned the sky above Bhopal into a war.

Hundreds of kites — red, green, saffron, blue — jostled and dove and climbed, their glass-coated strings glinting like spider silk in the January sun. From every rooftop and terrace in the old city, children and grandfathers leaned back, arms extended, feeding line to the wind, pulling sharp when an enemy kite drifted close. The object was simple: cut the other kite's string. Send it spiraling down.

Nandu stood on Baa's terrace with a diamond-shaped kite the color of turmeric. Kabir was beside him, hopping from foot to foot, shouting instructions that contradicted each other every three seconds. "Pull! No, release! Left! No, the other left!"

Nandu ignored him. He was watching the wind.

His kite rose steadily, climbing above the rooftop water tanks and television aerials until it was a bright yellow dot against the pale sky. A green kite from the neighboring terrace came swooping in — Nandu pulled hard, his kite dipped under the attack, and his manja caught the green kite's string. A snap. The green kite tumbled away, and Kabir screamed with joy.

Then a gust hit. Nandu's kite lurched sideways, the line went slack, and before he could react, a red kite from somewhere above sliced through his string like a hot knife through ghee. The yellow kite drifted free, spinning slowly, getting smaller and smaller until it was just a speck.

"No!" Kabir grabbed the empty spool. "We lost! We need another one!"

But Nandu just stood there, watching his kite float away over the rooftops of the old city, and he was smiling.

Baa, sitting in her plastic chair with a cup of chai, noticed.

"Why are you grinning?" Kabir demanded. "We just lost."

"I flew the same way when we were winning," Nandu said, surprised by his own words. "I was pulling and watching the wind and feeling the line — it felt exactly the same. The cutting and the getting cut. The only difference was what happened to the kite."

Baa took a sip of chai and said nothing for a moment. Then, almost to herself: "That is the secret. Do the thing the same way whether you are winning or losing. Let the result be the result. You just fly."

Kabir stared at both of them as if they had lost their minds. Then he grabbed a fresh kite from the pile, shoved it into Nandu's hands, and said, "Fine. Be philosophical later. Fly now."

Nandu laughed and tied the line.

चिन्तनम्

Think of something you love doing — playing a sport, drawing, solving puzzles. Does the way you do it change depending on whether you are winning or losing? What would it feel like to do it exactly the same either way?